Saturday, March 13, 2010

Sabbath

For short times in the past, our family has observed a Sabbath of sorts. When Zach worked the weekends, Thursday was the day. Currently, it is from sundown on Friday to sundown on Saturday. I think it is so important to have a day of rest. We are not Sabbath pros by any stretch, but here are our basic guidelines: no elaborate meal preparations, no computer time, no projects or yard work, no shopping or researching...etc. Instead, we try to fill our time with playing music, taking naps, reading, praying for our kids, relaxing, and mostly just enjoying each other with the goal of having absolutely nothing tangible to show for the day.

Sometimes Zach and I will complain that we feel a lack of direction from God. But, I feel silly for complaining when I have such a hard time sitting still and listening for His voice. Today was like a breath of fresh air...such a relaxing day.

I love the book Mudhouse Sabbath by Lauren Winner, and in it, she talks about how frantic Fridays were in her house growing up...all of the preparations for the day of rest. I think that I will be doing a lot of cleaning on Fridays. It's hard (at least for me) to rest in a dirty and cluttered space. Oh, and Winner also says that in a Jewish family, the momma lights a candle at sundown on Friday and this signifies to the whole family know that the time of rest has begun. Mmm....maybe I'll start doing that. Once the momma lights the candle, it's time for playing games and laughing...no "work" for the next 24 hours.

2 comments:

  1. another lovely idea to nurture your love
    for the Lord and your family.

    just returned from four days in the bahamas
    with hailey! so fun.

    ok, little blogging sister, have a wonderful
    friday . . . preparing for your sabbath!

    love,
    lea

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  2. so glad you guys are doing this! it is hard to be consistent, and there are so many activities and engagements often on saturday that are 'fun' but often times afterwards i dont feel so rested and dont really feel like i had any time with God. we are working on that balance of social time on saturdays (baby showers, birthdays, etc) and still resting!

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