So, for Lent this year I was debating on whether to give up Facebook or coffee. I asked Zach and my brothers for their advice on the matter. They all seemed to think that giving up Facebook for a few weeks would be more of a sacrifice. And they were right. I'm not sweating or getting shaky, but I thought I might be, because sometimes check that site way too many times throughout the day. I don't stay on long, just long enough to see the new updates, but still...I'm annoyed with my little addiction. What do I think I am going to miss?!
I love my friends and if something important happens, I think they will call me or email me, or send a letter in the mail. Imagine that :) I don't need to know what is going on with everyone. I actually don't think I was meant to process all of that. I guess that's why I don't watch the new either.
Facebook is great in ways. It's allowed me to maintain so many far-away connections, to see people's kids get bigger and to keep a pulse on many of the people I have gotten to know over the years. And that has been wonderful. At the same time, though, I am better Facebook friends with some people than I would ever be in "real life." And in real life, I hate to say it, but I think I have lost a beautiful part of some wonderful friendships.
It reminds me of the difference between watching TV and reading a book. Watching TV is wonderfully easy and one can watch so many shows in so little time. But, reading a book is an entirely different experience. It's rich and vivid and leaves a more lasting impression. It takes time and energy.
I do not know how it will play out, but so far since giving up Facebook I feel so much more focused and peaceful, and I feel like a better momma too. I don't think that's the purpose of the Lenten season, but I hope I will be more focused in all of my relationships, including the one I have with my creator.
Love,
Kate
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